Grooming as a Language of Love
Cows are deeply tactile, social beings. At Farmfari, grooming isn’t just a routine task — it’s a spiritual practice. Brushing a cow can be grounding, healing, and profoundly connective for both human and animal.
Grooming is one of the most powerful ways to build trust with a cow, especially one who has come from hardship or neglect.
Why Grooming Cows Matters for Their Health
Grooming helps with:
- Removing dirt and shedding hair
- Stimulating circulation
- Preventing skin issues
- Early detection of injuries or parasites
- Reducing stress and promoting relaxation
Brushing activates a cow’s natural bonding hormones, similar to how grooming affects horses, dogs, and even humans through positive touch.
RSPCA Cattle Welfare Resources
https://kb.rspca.org.au/knowledge-base/cattle/
Emotional Benefits: The Cow-Human Connection
Our cows often lean into the brush, close their eyes, and completely surrender to the moment.
This tells us:
- They feel safe
- They trust you
- They enjoy the social interaction
For many rescued cows, grooming becomes a turning point — when they finally realise they are home.
How to Groom a Cow: Farmfari’s Gentle Method
1. Begin With Presence
Speak softly. Move slowly. Allow the cow to approach first if possible.
2. Use a Soft-to-Medium Brush
Avoid stiff brushes on sensitive areas.
3. Start at the Shoulder
This area is least threatening for most cows.
4. Watch Their Feedback
Signs they’re enjoying themselves:
- Leaning on you
- Lowering the head
- Eyes half-closing
- Gentle licking or nudging
5. Groom in Short, Calm Sessions
Quality > quantity.
“Does My Cow Enjoy Grooming?” Checklist
✔ Leans into the brush
✔ Slow blinking
✔ Relaxed breathing
✔ Soft grunts
✘ Tail swishing hard (irritated)
✘ Moving away (needs space)
Most Sacred Ways To Care For A Cow
Grooming is one of the simplest yet most sacred ways to care for a cow — and it strengthens your connection in ways words cannot describe. For cows who have known fear or hardship, a brush in gentle hands can be the beginning of a new story.
