Listening with Your Heart: How to Understand a Horse Without Words

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There’s a unique kind of magic in standing beside a horse and knowing what they’re feeling—without a single word spoken. At Farmfari, we believe the deepest conversations with animals come from stillness, observation, and trust.

Horses are masters of non-verbal communication. Their entire world revolves around energy, body language, and subtle emotional shifts. For those willing to listen with more than just their ears, horses offer a profound opportunity for connection.

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Understanding Horse Body Language: The Basics

Horses speak through posture, breath, eyes, and movement. Here are some key signs we observe at Farmfari:

  • Ears Forward: Curious and engaged.
  • Ears Back: Irritated or processing new information—watch closely.
  • Licking and Chewing: Processing information or releasing tension.
  • Tail Swishing: Can signal annoyance, flies, or stress depending on context.
  • Head Lowered: Relaxed, often a sign of trust.

See how body language played a role in Ellie’s healing journey, when she sighed and began to lick and chew on arrival.

External Link: Learn more in the RSPCA’s guide to horse behaviour.


Emotional Cues and the Power of Stillness

One of the most underrated tools in horse communication is simply being present. At Farmfari, our most meaningful moments often happen in silence:

  • A horse resting their head on your shoulder
  • Mirroring your breath and energy
  • Turning their body to face you as an invitation to engage

Horses can feel your heartbeat and detect anxiety, calm, or excitement. That’s why so many people say they feel emotionally “read” by horses.

To experience this yourself, come spend time with our herd on a Farm Visit.

Equine Connection Australia explores how horses respond to human emotion in equine-assisted learning.

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Intuition and Energy: The Deeper Conversation

Scientific studies in equine psychology back what sanctuaries like Farmfari have known all along—horses communicate through energy. When we shift our focus inward and learn to quiet our thoughts, horses respond with openness.

This intuitive bond often shows up as:

  • Horses approaching quietly and lingering
  • Matching steps with a person walking near them
  • Seeking eye contact or physical closeness

It’s a gentle dance of permission, where the horse sets the rhythm and we follow. There is no force. Only trust.

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FAQs: Understanding Horse Emotions and Behaviour

Q: Why don’t horses “talk” like dogs or cats?
A: Horses are prey animals. Their survival has always depended on subtlety and awareness, not sound. They communicate best through quiet, physical cues.

Q: Can anyone learn to read horse behaviour?
A: Absolutely. All it takes is patience, observation, and a willingness to slow down. The more time you spend around horses, the more fluent you become.

Q: How do I know if a horse trusts me?
A: Signs of trust include soft eyes, approaching you without hesitation, relaxing their body around you, or initiating contact (like sniffing or standing close).

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The 5-Minute Horse Watch

Next time you’re near a horse—or even watching one in a video—try this:

  1. Observe without interacting.
  2. Watch their ears, eyes, breath, and movements.
  3. Match their breathing. Notice any response.
  4. Feel what shifts in your own body. Calm? Grounded? Curious?

This practice helps you develop intuitive awareness and deepen your connection with horses without needing any tools or training.


Let Horses Be Your Teachers

Horses don’t speak to be heard. They exist to be felt. At Farmfari, we honour their wisdom by slowing down, tuning in, and letting them show us a new way to listen—with our hearts.

Whether you’re a lifelong horse lover or new to equine care, there’s always more to learn from these sacred souls.